Do you REALLY understand the difference between important and urgent?

People often tell me that urgent means you have to do it, or that important means you need to do it soon – and these are both totally wrong!

But even more vital to understand, but more tricky, is that it is also WRONG to think that if you have to do it, it must be important.

Urgency is to do with when you do it, and importance is to do with whether you value it, whether it adds value, how WELL you should do it – and therefore how long you should spend on it.

Here are some more thoughts on this tricky subject….

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So is buying food important? No!

Admittedly you have to do it or you will starve, but you probably want to spend the minimum time on it, it’s a “maintenance task” rather than a “progress task”, you would probably press a magic button or delegate it if you could, if it was somehow automated and you never had to do it again you wouldn’t miss it, and doing it REALLY well doens’t add any value – so by all of these measures, it’s NOT important!

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OK let’s try another example – visiting the toilet:

HAVE to do it – yes – but irrelevant

Might be urgent – yes – but irrelevant

Want to spend minimum time? Probbaly yes -> not important

Maintenance rather than progress? Yes -> not important

Would you press a magic button / delegate it? Yes -> not important

If you never had to do it again would you miss it? No -> not important

Does doing it REALLY well add any extra value? No -> not important

…. it’s not important

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Final example – going to the beach with your grand children:

HAVE to do it? – no – but that’s irrelevant

Might not be urgent – also irrelevant

Want to spend minimum time? No -> Important

Maintenance rather than progress? No -> Important

Would you press a magic button / delegate it? No -> Important

If you never had to do it again would you miss it? Yes -> Important

Does doing it REALLY well add any extra value? Yes -> Important

Would it benefit from extra time spent? Yes -> Important

…. It IS important

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